What is a soulmate?
What is a soulmate? Is it just another term for 'true love' or is it something else, something more, something bigger and deeper?
No one really knows. There is no accepted definition of a soulmate or a definitive theory for soulmates. They say that a soulmate is an essence twin, or a counterpart of yourself, or your other half. Some say that it is the companion or lover who helps one acheive a goal. And usually said, the karmic teacher, who comes in to your life to teach you an important lesson. Some say that there we all have multiple number of soulmates, two, three, five, ten, twenty.
People think that when we find our soulmate, there will be no more conflicts, no more major issues to work through, no more problems could come their way. That is why people become so upset and depressed and disenchated when feel that they found that perfect someone who they think is their soulmate and then after a few months, may be weeks it turns out that there are things about them that drives them crazy and things that they just couldn't stand. Conflicts arise and they give up easily thinking that that person wasn't really a soulmate. And they end up thinking "I beleived that that person was my soulmate but because all of this things are bothering us and we can't handle it, he (or she) might not be after all. Then it leads to the point where they start looking somehow desperately for their one 'perfect soulmate' and most likely they will never find.
We all want to be fulfilled in our personal lives but too many people subconsciously or consciously avoid potentialy enriching relationships. The sting of failure in the past experiences and relationships inhibits exposure to new liasons. We tend to avoid in which we fear or has wounded our heart and soul. No relationship is a mistake. We learn from each other and the most disparaging intimate partners can be our greatest teachers. It is just all in us. The way we think about our experiences and the way we see them affects every relationship we encounter. If we view everything in our past as stepping stones instead of stumbling blocks, we would have better understanding and most probably we will have an understanding relationship with our partners. We make better choices, listen to what our partner would want to say, or simply a better communication for your relationship.
Some of you may think all these are lame thoughts and that I am going insane but I beleive that being with your soulmate is really a choice. A choice in which you both (you and your soulmate) beleive in one thing and most importantly, to what really is a soulmate for you. It is building a chance, A chance for enriching others, touching the other's life in a very special way, teaching what you beleive in, a chance for everything even love. A bond unbreakable that no matter what hardships and conflicts arise to the both of you, that bridge of chance will never be broken. Or atleast you soulmates rebuild that bridge when it is broken. A continuous growth of an incredible kind of relationship --a friend, a brother (sister), a bestfriend, a stranger, lover or even an enemy.
No one really knows. There is no accepted definition of a soulmate or a definitive theory for soulmates. They say that a soulmate is an essence twin, or a counterpart of yourself, or your other half. Some say that it is the companion or lover who helps one acheive a goal. And usually said, the karmic teacher, who comes in to your life to teach you an important lesson. Some say that there we all have multiple number of soulmates, two, three, five, ten, twenty.
People think that when we find our soulmate, there will be no more conflicts, no more major issues to work through, no more problems could come their way. That is why people become so upset and depressed and disenchated when feel that they found that perfect someone who they think is their soulmate and then after a few months, may be weeks it turns out that there are things about them that drives them crazy and things that they just couldn't stand. Conflicts arise and they give up easily thinking that that person wasn't really a soulmate. And they end up thinking "I beleived that that person was my soulmate but because all of this things are bothering us and we can't handle it, he (or she) might not be after all. Then it leads to the point where they start looking somehow desperately for their one 'perfect soulmate' and most likely they will never find.
We all want to be fulfilled in our personal lives but too many people subconsciously or consciously avoid potentialy enriching relationships. The sting of failure in the past experiences and relationships inhibits exposure to new liasons. We tend to avoid in which we fear or has wounded our heart and soul. No relationship is a mistake. We learn from each other and the most disparaging intimate partners can be our greatest teachers. It is just all in us. The way we think about our experiences and the way we see them affects every relationship we encounter. If we view everything in our past as stepping stones instead of stumbling blocks, we would have better understanding and most probably we will have an understanding relationship with our partners. We make better choices, listen to what our partner would want to say, or simply a better communication for your relationship.
Some of you may think all these are lame thoughts and that I am going insane but I beleive that being with your soulmate is really a choice. A choice in which you both (you and your soulmate) beleive in one thing and most importantly, to what really is a soulmate for you. It is building a chance, A chance for enriching others, touching the other's life in a very special way, teaching what you beleive in, a chance for everything even love. A bond unbreakable that no matter what hardships and conflicts arise to the both of you, that bridge of chance will never be broken. Or atleast you soulmates rebuild that bridge when it is broken. A continuous growth of an incredible kind of relationship --a friend, a brother (sister), a bestfriend, a stranger, lover or even an enemy.
I ask myself, What would my life be like with this person? How would I feel when I am with this person? What would we do together? She is my soulmate, Is there real love with her? Do I give and receive love generously and unselfishly? What ever it may be I know I am ready to be in an intensely loving relationship with my soulmate.
We all have our own beleifs of what a soulmate may be. Some might even think that soulmates do not even exist. But whatever it is that we beleive in, do not hesitate to share that to other people. Who knows, maybe that person turns out to be your soulmate too.
We all have our own beleifs of what a soulmate may be. Some might even think that soulmates do not even exist. But whatever it is that we beleive in, do not hesitate to share that to other people. Who knows, maybe that person turns out to be your soulmate too.
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"You learn to trust not only each other, but also your ability to grow together. You learn that you put your partnership most at risk by avoiding that which you are most afraid will destroy it."
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"You learn to trust not only each other, but also your ability to grow together. You learn that you put your partnership most at risk by avoiding that which you are most afraid will destroy it."
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